Anyone could have a child who struggles with these issues. Now, I’m definitely in the category of someone who would discourage transitioning. Encouraging hormone blockers and such is nothing less than evil.
However, making light of the condition makes it harder for children to talk about it. They internalize their shame and are more likely to be victimized by trans zealots who encourage surgery and hormones as a solution.
I wish you well. Please don’t let the vocal woke warriors hate all of us.
If a child has all the signs at a very young age that they are a sexual invert - homosexual transexual - parents should definitely look into putting the boys on birth control pills around age 12 to prevent the masculinizing effects of puberty. Girls, on the other hand, should not be put on any testosterone or other hormones or puberty blockers or have surgery. The affect of male hormones on girls is irreversible. Surgery will cause sterility. Most girls will grow out of their gender dysphoria and many boys will too. Therefore, a girl should not make any decision about surgery or taking male hormones until she is an adult.
The key is early onset around 3 years old and persistent and consistent behavior from the child that they are the other sex, have crushes on the same sex, and want to play and socialize with the opposite sex and are attracted to opposite sex interests and activities.
Putting a boy on birth control pills will delay puberty but once they are taken off the pills they will quickly masculinize. They will not be irreversibly harmed by taking birth control pills. Few homosexual transexuals get bottom surgery though they will often get top surgery - breast implants.
That said transgenderism is very rare. There has been a transgendered mass hysteria among young women fueled by social media for the last few years and now many videos can be found of young women who now regret transitioning.
Mass hysteria is a real phenomenon. Fear of COVID became the latest mass hysteria. The public can be worked up in to mass hysteria by the media and subversives. The Salem witch trials along with prior witch trials were mass hysteria. Fears of ‘white supremacists’ is another example of leaders trying to whip up mass hysteria. Don’t fall for the latest mass hysteria.
There's nothing wrong with investigating HRT for a gender-nonconforming young son. But please, leave him alone until he goes into puberty and let him tell you whether he's an effeminate gay man or a transwoman. Fifty years of studies have demonstrated that puberty is the bright line: the majority of these boys settle with their sex and come out as gay, but there's a critical minority who find that their gender dysphoria doesn't fade. (As you point out, transgenderism is very rare.) Don't shame your son or push him in any particular direction. Offer insight therapy (neither gender-critical or gender-affirming) to help him figure it out, in case he's struggling with internalized homophobia or other issues that he hasn't discussed with you. Let him know that whether he turns out to be gay or trans (or who knows? even straight!), it's fine with you. That way he'll remain true to himself and won't feel pressured to conform to your or society's expectations.
Also, I have heard from detransitioned males that HRT is not always reversible in boys. I've heard of boys getting stuck with a micro penis or one that never grows to its full size. Sexual function and libido may be negatively affected, and overall growth may be stunted. Parents should have access to a good endocrinologist to help a boy normalize as male if he determines that he's not trans after all.
Homosexuals aren’t ‘gay’. ‘Gay’ is a lifestyle that is primarily made up of pederasts, pedophiles, sexual paraphilias - narcissism, sadomasochism, and political, social, hierarchical, economic or situational motives.
Homosexual is a sexual orientation, it is innate as is heterosexuality.
Pederasty and pedophila are cyclical - the abused will grow up to be the abuser. It should never be accepted or normalized - ever.
I agree with your last paragraph. The sexual abuse of children is one of the most odious, evil and reprehensible acts that can be committed by one human being against another. Little girls are raped by priests. Fathers abuse daughters. Mothers abuse sons. It's not just a same-sex phenomenon.
As a lesbian who's been in and around the lesbian and gay community for fifty years, I make no distinction between the terms gay and homosexual and neither does anybody else I've ever known who's gay or lesbian. Personally, I prefer "lesbian" to identify myself, but as a shorthand I may sometimes say I'm "gay." Obviously, this has nothing to do with the molestation of children, paraphilias, or personality disorders such as narcissism. Over the past half century, I've known many gay men, and they have been some of the kindest, most loyal and trustworthy friends that I could hope to have. They are not child molesters.
You've identified two different types of individuals that exist within the gay community. But with all due respect, you're not going to get a lot of traction by attaching the ubiquitous, garden-variety term "gay" to behaviors that are so reprehensible. Perhaps a different term is in order.
Lesbian and Gay are lifestyles not sexual orientations.
Most are pederasts - penetrating males who like boys - with young homosexuals as their preferred prey; Sexual Inverts, who may develop autoandrophilia (in biological males or Autogynephilia in biological females ) and become ‘new gay males’. Mirroring the gender expression of the type of person they are sexually attracted to, finding a similar looking partner doing the same thing and then switching roles as in “you pretend to be a penetrating male tonight and I get to be penetrated”; and non-trans Autogynephiles who have behavioural Autogynephilia , that is, they want to experience 'sex as a woman' ie be penetrated. These might transition in the future.
Gay is an umbrella term that has been developed to lump together homosexuals with paraphilias. By doing so wolves in sheep’s clothing get to live among the sheep and steal their identities.
Sex is better understood as wanting to penetrate and wanting to be penetrated. Masculine/Male/Pentrate/Dominate vs Feminine/Female/Penetrate/Submissive.
Low libido is asexual. Sex is a binary and gender expression is a result. Gender expression is based on whether one wants to penetrate or be penetrated. Even if it’s as simple as a submissive biological male wearing an earring or a handkerchief in their pocket to signal that they are a bottom / submissive.
My point is that true homosexuals are not gay. True homosexuals are sexual inverts - who were born that way and most don’t even consider themselves gay. Pederasts and pedophiles are cyclical meaning they are a result of abuse - the victims grow up to be the perpetrators - a repeating cycle of abuse. The abuse causes the abused - who is now too old to be found attractive to be exploited - to try to reclaim their innate desire to dominate. Pederasts often marry the opposite sex and have families while abusing youth on the side.
Homosexuals make up a very small percentage of ‘gays’. They are outnumbered and out shouted by the very vocal AGPs, etc..
Outside of the West homosexuals would live and be accepted as sexual inverts. Prior to the creation of the new gay male in the 1960’s homosexuals / sexual inverts did the same in the West.
Oscar Wilde was a pederast. He lost interest in his young wife as she got older and pursued effeminate young men / minors. He himself said he wasn’t a homosexual because he wanted to penetrate. If he were a homosexual he would have been a sexual invert and he would have wanted to exclusively be penetrated.
The real LGB agenda has been announced this week - normalizing pederasty (and pedophilia) under their new term ‘minor attracted persons’. The highly coordinated MAP campaign stated officially this week with the announcement by an Old Dominion University professor who was quickly joined by a chorus of supporters in academia.
Wolves who have now taking off t he their sheepskins who intend to dupe others in to believing that there is such a thing as an altruistic/ non- practicing pederast / pedophile who should be allowed near minors, children and youth - actually they want their agenda to be encouraged and celebrated under diversity and inclusion.
As a self described ‘lesbian’ only you know what they means in your life and sexuality. No one should ever mistaken homosexuality for the LGB and AGP ( Heterosexual/ pseudo bisexual transvestite) lifestyle.
There are differing degrees of sexual inversion. Homosexual transexuals being the complete sexual inversion. With some ‘gays’ being incomplete sexual inverts. The rage of TERFs over gender reassignment surgery for
is really about pederasts not wanting to lose out on new crops of sexual inverts to prey upon. Successful transition of sexual inverts needs to start at age 12 for males only by taking a birth control pill every day to halt puberty. Females should wait until they are in their 20’s and are sure that they want to transition because taking male hormones will leave irreversible changes.
I'm waiting for Mike Tyson to self identify as a lightweight, and take the lightweight title.
Hi Richard,
Just something to ponder ...
Anyone could have a child who struggles with these issues. Now, I’m definitely in the category of someone who would discourage transitioning. Encouraging hormone blockers and such is nothing less than evil.
However, making light of the condition makes it harder for children to talk about it. They internalize their shame and are more likely to be victimized by trans zealots who encourage surgery and hormones as a solution.
I wish you well. Please don’t let the vocal woke warriors hate all of us.
I wouldn’t wish gender dysphoria on anyone.
If a child has all the signs at a very young age that they are a sexual invert - homosexual transexual - parents should definitely look into putting the boys on birth control pills around age 12 to prevent the masculinizing effects of puberty. Girls, on the other hand, should not be put on any testosterone or other hormones or puberty blockers or have surgery. The affect of male hormones on girls is irreversible. Surgery will cause sterility. Most girls will grow out of their gender dysphoria and many boys will too. Therefore, a girl should not make any decision about surgery or taking male hormones until she is an adult.
The key is early onset around 3 years old and persistent and consistent behavior from the child that they are the other sex, have crushes on the same sex, and want to play and socialize with the opposite sex and are attracted to opposite sex interests and activities.
Putting a boy on birth control pills will delay puberty but once they are taken off the pills they will quickly masculinize. They will not be irreversibly harmed by taking birth control pills. Few homosexual transexuals get bottom surgery though they will often get top surgery - breast implants.
That said transgenderism is very rare. There has been a transgendered mass hysteria among young women fueled by social media for the last few years and now many videos can be found of young women who now regret transitioning.
Mass hysteria is a real phenomenon. Fear of COVID became the latest mass hysteria. The public can be worked up in to mass hysteria by the media and subversives. The Salem witch trials along with prior witch trials were mass hysteria. Fears of ‘white supremacists’ is another example of leaders trying to whip up mass hysteria. Don’t fall for the latest mass hysteria.
There's nothing wrong with investigating HRT for a gender-nonconforming young son. But please, leave him alone until he goes into puberty and let him tell you whether he's an effeminate gay man or a transwoman. Fifty years of studies have demonstrated that puberty is the bright line: the majority of these boys settle with their sex and come out as gay, but there's a critical minority who find that their gender dysphoria doesn't fade. (As you point out, transgenderism is very rare.) Don't shame your son or push him in any particular direction. Offer insight therapy (neither gender-critical or gender-affirming) to help him figure it out, in case he's struggling with internalized homophobia or other issues that he hasn't discussed with you. Let him know that whether he turns out to be gay or trans (or who knows? even straight!), it's fine with you. That way he'll remain true to himself and won't feel pressured to conform to your or society's expectations.
Also, I have heard from detransitioned males that HRT is not always reversible in boys. I've heard of boys getting stuck with a micro penis or one that never grows to its full size. Sexual function and libido may be negatively affected, and overall growth may be stunted. Parents should have access to a good endocrinologist to help a boy normalize as male if he determines that he's not trans after all.
Internalized homophobia is a term to gaslight young sexual inverts to call their own biology as "homophobia". Stop that non-sense.
Homosexuals aren’t ‘gay’. ‘Gay’ is a lifestyle that is primarily made up of pederasts, pedophiles, sexual paraphilias - narcissism, sadomasochism, and political, social, hierarchical, economic or situational motives.
Homosexual is a sexual orientation, it is innate as is heterosexuality.
Pederasty and pedophila are cyclical - the abused will grow up to be the abuser. It should never be accepted or normalized - ever.
Thanks for redefining the word gay. Be sure to call Webster's and let them know your new definition so that no one is out of the loop.
Nothing new about it. Gay has always been an umbrella term and it describes a lifestyle. It doesn’t not describe a sexual orientation.
I agree with your last paragraph. The sexual abuse of children is one of the most odious, evil and reprehensible acts that can be committed by one human being against another. Little girls are raped by priests. Fathers abuse daughters. Mothers abuse sons. It's not just a same-sex phenomenon.
As a lesbian who's been in and around the lesbian and gay community for fifty years, I make no distinction between the terms gay and homosexual and neither does anybody else I've ever known who's gay or lesbian. Personally, I prefer "lesbian" to identify myself, but as a shorthand I may sometimes say I'm "gay." Obviously, this has nothing to do with the molestation of children, paraphilias, or personality disorders such as narcissism. Over the past half century, I've known many gay men, and they have been some of the kindest, most loyal and trustworthy friends that I could hope to have. They are not child molesters.
You've identified two different types of individuals that exist within the gay community. But with all due respect, you're not going to get a lot of traction by attaching the ubiquitous, garden-variety term "gay" to behaviors that are so reprehensible. Perhaps a different term is in order.
Lesbian and Gay are lifestyles not sexual orientations.
Most are pederasts - penetrating males who like boys - with young homosexuals as their preferred prey; Sexual Inverts, who may develop autoandrophilia (in biological males or Autogynephilia in biological females ) and become ‘new gay males’. Mirroring the gender expression of the type of person they are sexually attracted to, finding a similar looking partner doing the same thing and then switching roles as in “you pretend to be a penetrating male tonight and I get to be penetrated”; and non-trans Autogynephiles who have behavioural Autogynephilia , that is, they want to experience 'sex as a woman' ie be penetrated. These might transition in the future.
Gay is an umbrella term that has been developed to lump together homosexuals with paraphilias. By doing so wolves in sheep’s clothing get to live among the sheep and steal their identities.
Sex is better understood as wanting to penetrate and wanting to be penetrated. Masculine/Male/Pentrate/Dominate vs Feminine/Female/Penetrate/Submissive.
Low libido is asexual. Sex is a binary and gender expression is a result. Gender expression is based on whether one wants to penetrate or be penetrated. Even if it’s as simple as a submissive biological male wearing an earring or a handkerchief in their pocket to signal that they are a bottom / submissive.
My point is that true homosexuals are not gay. True homosexuals are sexual inverts - who were born that way and most don’t even consider themselves gay. Pederasts and pedophiles are cyclical meaning they are a result of abuse - the victims grow up to be the perpetrators - a repeating cycle of abuse. The abuse causes the abused - who is now too old to be found attractive to be exploited - to try to reclaim their innate desire to dominate. Pederasts often marry the opposite sex and have families while abusing youth on the side.
Homosexuals make up a very small percentage of ‘gays’. They are outnumbered and out shouted by the very vocal AGPs, etc..
Outside of the West homosexuals would live and be accepted as sexual inverts. Prior to the creation of the new gay male in the 1960’s homosexuals / sexual inverts did the same in the West.
Oscar Wilde was a pederast. He lost interest in his young wife as she got older and pursued effeminate young men / minors. He himself said he wasn’t a homosexual because he wanted to penetrate. If he were a homosexual he would have been a sexual invert and he would have wanted to exclusively be penetrated.
The real LGB agenda has been announced this week - normalizing pederasty (and pedophilia) under their new term ‘minor attracted persons’. The highly coordinated MAP campaign stated officially this week with the announcement by an Old Dominion University professor who was quickly joined by a chorus of supporters in academia.
Wolves who have now taking off t he their sheepskins who intend to dupe others in to believing that there is such a thing as an altruistic/ non- practicing pederast / pedophile who should be allowed near minors, children and youth - actually they want their agenda to be encouraged and celebrated under diversity and inclusion.
As a self described ‘lesbian’ only you know what they means in your life and sexuality. No one should ever mistaken homosexuality for the LGB and AGP ( Heterosexual/ pseudo bisexual transvestite) lifestyle.
There are differing degrees of sexual inversion. Homosexual transexuals being the complete sexual inversion. With some ‘gays’ being incomplete sexual inverts. The rage of TERFs over gender reassignment surgery for
is really about pederasts not wanting to lose out on new crops of sexual inverts to prey upon. Successful transition of sexual inverts needs to start at age 12 for males only by taking a birth control pill every day to halt puberty. Females should wait until they are in their 20’s and are sure that they want to transition because taking male hormones will leave irreversible changes.