Hi Abigail. I read your last post and have a few things to suggest. I'm not sure that gen-z needs more rom-coms as much as it needs some willingness to accept women and men are made different, or for lack of a better term: gender roles. Your comment about your husband and how he treated you points this out. He didn't marry you for your driving skills, I suspect he was more focused on other things and you probably (in part) married him because he is capable and you trust him.
I don't think gen-z has this. Whatever feminism killed, social media buried.
I'll give an example from my own life. I was married for 14 years to a woman I loved, but she ran into an old boyfriend on social media and was frustrated that I wasn't who she wanted me to be. After the inevitable fling, our family was destroyed and she went back to school, and started getting educated... next thing you know she is fallen for the cult of leftism and now lives alone with our 23 year old son who never finished high school. She will probably be alone the rest of her days, playing girl boss battle with everyone she meets, blaming me, and coddling our son.
I'm remarried to a beautiful woman that I enjoy and we are happy, but (keeping the post on track) we both experienced the dating world of today, and whoa, feminism and social media has changed everything. People don't connect in the real world anymore, it's all text and the women live in some other reality. Point: gen-z and even the progressive gen-x have fallen into a world where they don't know how to interact with the opposite sex. Hell, they don't know how to interact with anyone, they probably aren't even sure who they are. In other words, rom-coms are downstream of culture and the culture is the problem.
Thank you for your very thoughtful comment and for sharing your beautiful story. For what it's worth, I didn't mean to propose Rom Coms as a literal solution to Gen Z's dating woes. I only meant to highlight that previous generations got all sorts of cultural support and guidance for how to flirt and date and that that support and direction is now absent. Thank you so much for this note.
Appreciated.....And agreed... as an interesting side note which kind of makes my point, I've started getting "likes" in my email box for this post, which I suppose is some incentive to get me to interact in this way more. Feels dystopian.
Your example has nothing to do with gender roles. Your wife had an affair and left you. Women who believe in strict gender roles are by no means immune to having affairs or leaving their husbands.
Interesting just a day ago, prior to reading your articles, I was listening to songs from the late 60’s and early 70’s (I think it was Spotify B.J Thomas playlist), I use music to help take naps (getting old but never will be old). It struck me that these songs were about love, about needing someone, caring for someone, etc. I then thought about much of today’s music (Don’t ask the genre…Hip Hop?) and how crass and debasing they are to women and people in general. How indignant the songs are of our culture. No, I do not listen to much of it and do not want to. Back to the point, our, my, college dating and early 20’s had music that was so much different, even the hard rockers came out with live ballads. I do not know how we get back to a kinder, gentler America. Music influences culture and vice-versa, chicken and egg.
I can understand why people want to do at least part of their interaction at a distance. I used to tremble like a racehorse in the starting gate when the adrenaline hit.
I’m not a social worker, counselor, therapist or teacher, but over which as a board certified MD psychiatrist, psychoanalyst and theoretician in the area of human courtship for 30 years we could talk about your questions.
I’m on substack at drpauldobransky.substack.com and Romantipedia.substack.com and as a dating coach in Chicago, Los Angeles, NYC, London, Paris, and Stockholm for 15 of those years, I could bring light to any such questions you could have if we did a livestream.
You underrate today's music. A few current pop love songs: Die with a Smile by Lady Gaga and Bruno Mars, Beautiful Things by Benson Boone, Birds of a Feather by Billie Eilish, Close to You by Gracie Abrams and Stargazing by Myles Smith. Yes, there are a lot of uninspiring songs, but weren't there aways?
Did I say there were no good songs? I said “much of today’s music”. I agree with you on some great songs and my Spotify playlist has many. Mine was a general observation.
I am eagerly awaiting your book. This hits me on a personal level. My lovely, bright, interesting daughter, born in 2005, has never had any kind of relationship except with her phone. She’s constantly online. She has few friends and only one she makes plans with. She claims she’s attracted to women and I would be happy for her to date a nice person whether they are female or male, but she says she has no interest. When she was in middle school she had crushes but in high school it was like she transferred that energy to her various fandoms. She is wrapped up in these para social relationships with her favorite bands online and seems disconnected from reality. Yet, she’s doing well in college but lives at home and doesn’t want to leave. She’s 20 but seems 14. I don’t know where I went wrong—I have always encouraged her independence and put off getting her a phone until high school. Her one friend is just like her. Something’s not right with so many of these kids. I need to know what to do differently with my younger kids so they don’t get sucked into fantasy land which is where my older daughter lives.
A subject near and dear to my heart as I watch my "Zillenial" (1996) 28 yr old and his friends, none of whom are married (although my son is the first of his crowd - has a GF of 7 yrs, they just bought a condo and are planning on getting married within the year) in stark contrast to my Gen Z kids. My daughter and her hubby just got married at 22, right after college, and all of their friends are very conservative and they're allllll getting married and having babies. That's their goal , to be more traditional. My 18 yr old and his friends are on the same page with them but possibly even more conservative. They're like mini-generations. The difference is crazy.
Are you familiar with Leon and Amy Kass's book: *Wing to Wing, Oar to Oar: Readings on Courting and Marrying*? Leon Kass is more famous for his work in bioethics, but when he and his wife were university professors they became concerned about the breakdown in healthy relationships among their students -- it seemed that the young people did not find it easy to fall in love, and the Kasses believed this situation to be at least partially the result of their students being starved for cultural models, for the stories that might have inculcated a richer understanding of their humanity.
So they put together this anthology of literature, as a caring gift. I always wondered if their project bore fruit. I couldn't imagine the people who needed it having any desire to read it, as it seems the current victims of this cultural moment are not typically readers. I definitely get your point about the right kind of movies, in which people fall in love in the old-fashioned way, being a good thing.
My nephew is in his 40's and has been single for several years after a long term relationship. He says women are hard to approach because they travel "in packs." When he wants to talk to one of them, he feels like he has to impress all three or four of them.
You’ve probably already heard of The Dating Project (2011, I believe) https://www.thedatingprojectmovie.com/ but in my experience some of the same problems seem to continue on or just worsen as social media increases. Culturally, we’ve “lost the script”.
School Psychologists have been trained to FIND FAULTS
The DSM was rewritten to LABEL your babies f@#ked up so that PHARMA can drug them.
The LGBTQ is not Lesbian or Gay or bisexual.
It is only T.Q.
The targeting of a very specific splinter group in a society and generating hype and frenzy is how you build a movement to create a color revolution in a Country.
A segment of marginalized society is necessary to build a movement to overthrow a government.
This is psychological warfare to splinter and severe a homogenous group with propaganda, protests, usually racial or GENDER based.
Remember hope and CHANGE byaexist OBAMA?
In order to create a change, you need some group or an idea. This Is the transgender person. They aren’t actually a defined group. Which is normal. You never want anyone telling you who you are. You are fine AS YOU ARE
The government on the other hand is sick!
The propaganda generated to build a transgender movement in America came into your schools just like it did in UKRAINE !
This is one of those same lesson plans.
And so your schools became a psychological warfare playground to implement regime change to ONE WORLD GOVERNMENT
UNESCO is behind this extermination of the United States using your kids and your SCHOOL !
(Any idea harmful or beneficial can be manufactured in children using psychology and indoctrination. With attention and programming and rewards. The horrible traits of an animal can be placed into a child.
This has nothing to do with transgender anything. It is about creating a transhuman generation for more biological implants, and altering biological children into synthetic controlled animals.
This ideology is MARXIST that came into your child. It is MARXIST programming to dissolve the self and worship the STATE.
A heinous weapon of communist intent from the nefarious World Economic Forum and United Nations was delivered into your government.
It is a weapon and it was well thought out and implemented.
This is a known model to crash identities and reprogram a given Slavic population like Ukraine into an anti-russian mob.
This was done just recently between 2012 and today.
The results are a genocide of Ukrainian who adopted Nazi ideology and transhuman embodiment.
Your government is not sovereign. It was used by UNESCO or the United Nations to fund and pay to implement regime change IN YOUR COUNTRY USING YOUR KIDS ~american!
A psychological reprogramming was unleashed on your children.
A weapon was unleashed on your school by UNESCO using your militaries psych war division to rewrite text books!
This is a effective common method to drive a wedge between a homogenous group (schools) churches (Congress) or this should hurt (your family).
In order to soften the public and make possible a regime change.
The model of “change” needs a window of opportunity.
This exact model has been used by the CIA to overthrow other governments AROUND the world. They use their SCHOOLS, news media
(YouTube) (tiktok) (Facebook) (Twitter)
And CELEBRITIES
And in this case with transhumanism being the goal it chose to use teachers, administrators, and school psychologists to enforce a new break and mold social engineering project ON YOUR KIDS.
And it is what happened in RUSSIA to their kids. And how they got CHRISTIANS to salute Uncle Lenin! And hate their parents or peers if they did not give themselves to the STATE
And it is a part of what we are experiencing.
Our former system is being attacked. Our kids are being attacked. Our elderly were killed by injections and intentional procedures to harm and maim and kill.
This is the smash the old and insert the new program.
This isn’t a good program being run into us.
It is the digital Mao totalitarian prison planet model of SLAVERY.
This is what the British/U.S. did in China! For the New World Order by CIA type operations. It isn’t any different. It is beyond similar! It is the same.
Because this transhuman model came from a Marxist theorist.
It is a rewritten communist break and mold playbook being used on your children. To transform.
A re-worded bunch of bullshit about fluid genders has harmed children's identities as super American people.
The totalitarian One World Government is destroying a generation of children to use to over throw the United States from the inside.
& it is built on
MARXIST queer programming.
And it is a blueprint to crash your childs identity and put in a new one. Without parental consent! Under secrecy and by force.
This is not beneficial in any way shape or form to kids or especially anyone with gender dysphoria. That is a real thing. And those KIDS are all ruined by this. This HELPS NO KID at ALL
Gay and Lesbian rights groups are screaming to stop harming kids! They are not likely gay, lesbian, or trans!
And the gays and lesbians are fighting to stop GOVERNMENT from telling kids what they are!
That was your red flag that you failed. Why would you let people who kill people for a living around the world tell you anything about your child. Or let them determine what your child's identity is.
pure unadulterated harm is built in.
and harm is part of breaking down a child to make them vulnerable, and obedient to the other kids in the class and to the indoctrination. Kids who are all manipulated into behaving in a certain structure will reinforce those ideas, and behaviors.
That is what school does to little kids. It reinforces through the kids in a group what the instructions are.
If the instruction is to cause children to be BROKEN and FOR them to then suffer through gender dysphoria together. They will FORM a bond around TRAUMA and can be driven AWAY from their mother fuckin parents!
And this is being done at a Young age. Nine, ten, or 11 years old are being exposed to pornographic toxic information. And to make them uncomfortable in a sick way to channel them into an anti-human, state submissive, and permanent “emotional Support Animal” type status.
This is SICK. And your SCHOOL is doing this!
CRUELTY to kids is instructed as policy by the former Department of Education
And it is evil.
And you can thank Trump that he obliterated those Mother Fuckers.
He got that one right!
Reprogramming kids is not education. Learning to be a State controlled “it” is very much anti-human.
And that's what this transhuman programming is. It is teaching kids to be broken down. and by breaking down children they suffer trauma
A whipped animal, a hurt, harmed, and injured animal will be timid and afraid, and fearful and easily SUBMIT to the wishes of the ABUSER.
And this is what these sick fucks are doing to your kids !!!
An injured child, psychologically, is when the reset comes to accept the new programming. To install a new set of values, beliefs, and traits. This is being done to your kids (like ANIMALS).
This is transhumanism being inflicted on your babies
These people who push non-conformity at seven. Are breaking kids into subhuman controllable non-identity bearing lab rats.
And there is a reason.
UNESCO and One World Government have patented all the jabbed COVID Parents and they believe they own your babies.
The U.N. is a serious sick group of monsters.
And your politicians let this happen. And your government, they did this knowingly, and they do not consider your babies or kids people but products. Genderless animals that they can break and reprogram into infertile experiments for future biological or other experiments.
Why do these adulting benchmarks exist? Western cultures are supposedly hyperindividualistic but life stages must be completed at certain ages and in certain ways. How absurd! As a young child, my mom told me stories of adults who never learned to drive as if she were reading a grocery list, it just didn't matter. There are people, such as yours truly, who never leave the parental home, drive, have boy- or girlfriends, marry or have children and what of it? By the way, I do not believe that many people are really concerned about the environment; if they were, we would have local and national carpool programs and vehicular emissions would be substantially cut.
Just adding that I don't think it is just Gen-Z. I'm a single female Xennial, and I know quite a few like me. We grew up in mainline churches. We didn't have purity culture pushed on us like some, however books like "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" were everywhere. If we said that we wanted a husband or date, then someone reminded us that we weren't being faithful. We just needed to follow God and when we were ready, He would bring someone into our lives. While the aformentioned author has apologized for his book, the idea seems to have caught on. Are we waiting for the one and only? As a woman, I'd like the man to take the lead, but all the single men seemed to disappear into a basement when we graduated college to never be seen again.
My 20 year old son goes on and on about how we don't understand his generation. I'll send this to him and maybe he can go on and on to you about it. He's certainly got some good points about the collapse of dating, a main one being that there is a political gulf between young men and young women. And then there's the online dating market, which optimizes for one small group of very fit young men to play the field, and for nobody else. He's recently stumbled upon an age-old method that is way better: do good things, meet good people.
H-wood may have given up on Rom-coms; but K-drama's are overflowing with love and romance and relationship serendipity. The kind American movies used to be famous for.
The writing, acting and production values are better than anything Hollywood produces these day. A few are dubed; but most have subtitles. You can watch them on Amz, Netflix, Viki and other streaming services.
My wife and I have been watching them for years now and they just get better and better.
Email sent. Lots of experience with this population. There is a “new idea” coming to youth. “How about we doing something crazy and radical, let’s go outside, don’t bring our phones, and just hang out, talk, and laugh!” What we were forced to do prior to our dopamine machines, they will find necessary to not be robots destined for constant misery.
Hi Abigail. I read your last post and have a few things to suggest. I'm not sure that gen-z needs more rom-coms as much as it needs some willingness to accept women and men are made different, or for lack of a better term: gender roles. Your comment about your husband and how he treated you points this out. He didn't marry you for your driving skills, I suspect he was more focused on other things and you probably (in part) married him because he is capable and you trust him.
I don't think gen-z has this. Whatever feminism killed, social media buried.
I'll give an example from my own life. I was married for 14 years to a woman I loved, but she ran into an old boyfriend on social media and was frustrated that I wasn't who she wanted me to be. After the inevitable fling, our family was destroyed and she went back to school, and started getting educated... next thing you know she is fallen for the cult of leftism and now lives alone with our 23 year old son who never finished high school. She will probably be alone the rest of her days, playing girl boss battle with everyone she meets, blaming me, and coddling our son.
I'm remarried to a beautiful woman that I enjoy and we are happy, but (keeping the post on track) we both experienced the dating world of today, and whoa, feminism and social media has changed everything. People don't connect in the real world anymore, it's all text and the women live in some other reality. Point: gen-z and even the progressive gen-x have fallen into a world where they don't know how to interact with the opposite sex. Hell, they don't know how to interact with anyone, they probably aren't even sure who they are. In other words, rom-coms are downstream of culture and the culture is the problem.
Thank you for your very thoughtful comment and for sharing your beautiful story. For what it's worth, I didn't mean to propose Rom Coms as a literal solution to Gen Z's dating woes. I only meant to highlight that previous generations got all sorts of cultural support and guidance for how to flirt and date and that that support and direction is now absent. Thank you so much for this note.
Appreciated.....And agreed... as an interesting side note which kind of makes my point, I've started getting "likes" in my email box for this post, which I suppose is some incentive to get me to interact in this way more. Feels dystopian.
Your example has nothing to do with gender roles. Your wife had an affair and left you. Women who believe in strict gender roles are by no means immune to having affairs or leaving their husbands.
Sounds like someone, not me; I predate both of you, should write a script.
Interesting just a day ago, prior to reading your articles, I was listening to songs from the late 60’s and early 70’s (I think it was Spotify B.J Thomas playlist), I use music to help take naps (getting old but never will be old). It struck me that these songs were about love, about needing someone, caring for someone, etc. I then thought about much of today’s music (Don’t ask the genre…Hip Hop?) and how crass and debasing they are to women and people in general. How indignant the songs are of our culture. No, I do not listen to much of it and do not want to. Back to the point, our, my, college dating and early 20’s had music that was so much different, even the hard rockers came out with live ballads. I do not know how we get back to a kinder, gentler America. Music influences culture and vice-versa, chicken and egg.
Effect of porn?
I don’t think so.
I can understand why people want to do at least part of their interaction at a distance. I used to tremble like a racehorse in the starting gate when the adrenaline hit.
I’m not a social worker, counselor, therapist or teacher, but over which as a board certified MD psychiatrist, psychoanalyst and theoretician in the area of human courtship for 30 years we could talk about your questions.
I’m on substack at drpauldobransky.substack.com and Romantipedia.substack.com and as a dating coach in Chicago, Los Angeles, NYC, London, Paris, and Stockholm for 15 of those years, I could bring light to any such questions you could have if we did a livestream.
You underrate today's music. A few current pop love songs: Die with a Smile by Lady Gaga and Bruno Mars, Beautiful Things by Benson Boone, Birds of a Feather by Billie Eilish, Close to You by Gracie Abrams and Stargazing by Myles Smith. Yes, there are a lot of uninspiring songs, but weren't there aways?
Did I say there were no good songs? I said “much of today’s music”. I agree with you on some great songs and my Spotify playlist has many. Mine was a general observation.
I am eagerly awaiting your book. This hits me on a personal level. My lovely, bright, interesting daughter, born in 2005, has never had any kind of relationship except with her phone. She’s constantly online. She has few friends and only one she makes plans with. She claims she’s attracted to women and I would be happy for her to date a nice person whether they are female or male, but she says she has no interest. When she was in middle school she had crushes but in high school it was like she transferred that energy to her various fandoms. She is wrapped up in these para social relationships with her favorite bands online and seems disconnected from reality. Yet, she’s doing well in college but lives at home and doesn’t want to leave. She’s 20 but seems 14. I don’t know where I went wrong—I have always encouraged her independence and put off getting her a phone until high school. Her one friend is just like her. Something’s not right with so many of these kids. I need to know what to do differently with my younger kids so they don’t get sucked into fantasy land which is where my older daughter lives.
A subject near and dear to my heart as I watch my "Zillenial" (1996) 28 yr old and his friends, none of whom are married (although my son is the first of his crowd - has a GF of 7 yrs, they just bought a condo and are planning on getting married within the year) in stark contrast to my Gen Z kids. My daughter and her hubby just got married at 22, right after college, and all of their friends are very conservative and they're allllll getting married and having babies. That's their goal , to be more traditional. My 18 yr old and his friends are on the same page with them but possibly even more conservative. They're like mini-generations. The difference is crazy.
Girlfriend of seven years…enough said!
Glad to hear the younger kids are getting married and not “dating” for years on end.
I think you put your finger on it: "conservative." The kids on the right side of the aisle are doing much better.
Dear Abigail,
Are you familiar with Leon and Amy Kass's book: *Wing to Wing, Oar to Oar: Readings on Courting and Marrying*? Leon Kass is more famous for his work in bioethics, but when he and his wife were university professors they became concerned about the breakdown in healthy relationships among their students -- it seemed that the young people did not find it easy to fall in love, and the Kasses believed this situation to be at least partially the result of their students being starved for cultural models, for the stories that might have inculcated a richer understanding of their humanity.
So they put together this anthology of literature, as a caring gift. I always wondered if their project bore fruit. I couldn't imagine the people who needed it having any desire to read it, as it seems the current victims of this cultural moment are not typically readers. I definitely get your point about the right kind of movies, in which people fall in love in the old-fashioned way, being a good thing.
My nephew is in his 40's and has been single for several years after a long term relationship. He says women are hard to approach because they travel "in packs." When he wants to talk to one of them, he feels like he has to impress all three or four of them.
You’ve probably already heard of The Dating Project (2011, I believe) https://www.thedatingprojectmovie.com/ but in my experience some of the same problems seem to continue on or just worsen as social media increases. Culturally, we’ve “lost the script”.
School Psychologists have been trained to FIND FAULTS
The DSM was rewritten to LABEL your babies f@#ked up so that PHARMA can drug them.
The LGBTQ is not Lesbian or Gay or bisexual.
It is only T.Q.
The targeting of a very specific splinter group in a society and generating hype and frenzy is how you build a movement to create a color revolution in a Country.
A segment of marginalized society is necessary to build a movement to overthrow a government.
This is psychological warfare to splinter and severe a homogenous group with propaganda, protests, usually racial or GENDER based.
Remember hope and CHANGE byaexist OBAMA?
In order to create a change, you need some group or an idea. This Is the transgender person. They aren’t actually a defined group. Which is normal. You never want anyone telling you who you are. You are fine AS YOU ARE
The government on the other hand is sick!
The propaganda generated to build a transgender movement in America came into your schools just like it did in UKRAINE !
This is one of those same lesson plans.
And so your schools became a psychological warfare playground to implement regime change to ONE WORLD GOVERNMENT
UNESCO is behind this extermination of the United States using your kids and your SCHOOL !
(Any idea harmful or beneficial can be manufactured in children using psychology and indoctrination. With attention and programming and rewards. The horrible traits of an animal can be placed into a child.
This has nothing to do with transgender anything. It is about creating a transhuman generation for more biological implants, and altering biological children into synthetic controlled animals.
This ideology is MARXIST that came into your child. It is MARXIST programming to dissolve the self and worship the STATE.
A heinous weapon of communist intent from the nefarious World Economic Forum and United Nations was delivered into your government.
It is a weapon and it was well thought out and implemented.
This is a known model to crash identities and reprogram a given Slavic population like Ukraine into an anti-russian mob.
This was done just recently between 2012 and today.
The results are a genocide of Ukrainian who adopted Nazi ideology and transhuman embodiment.
Your government is not sovereign. It was used by UNESCO or the United Nations to fund and pay to implement regime change IN YOUR COUNTRY USING YOUR KIDS ~american!
A psychological reprogramming was unleashed on your children.
A weapon was unleashed on your school by UNESCO using your militaries psych war division to rewrite text books!
This is a effective common method to drive a wedge between a homogenous group (schools) churches (Congress) or this should hurt (your family).
In order to soften the public and make possible a regime change.
The model of “change” needs a window of opportunity.
This exact model has been used by the CIA to overthrow other governments AROUND the world. They use their SCHOOLS, news media
(YouTube) (tiktok) (Facebook) (Twitter)
And CELEBRITIES
And in this case with transhumanism being the goal it chose to use teachers, administrators, and school psychologists to enforce a new break and mold social engineering project ON YOUR KIDS.
And it is what happened in RUSSIA to their kids. And how they got CHRISTIANS to salute Uncle Lenin! And hate their parents or peers if they did not give themselves to the STATE
And it is a part of what we are experiencing.
Our former system is being attacked. Our kids are being attacked. Our elderly were killed by injections and intentional procedures to harm and maim and kill.
This is the smash the old and insert the new program.
This isn’t a good program being run into us.
It is the digital Mao totalitarian prison planet model of SLAVERY.
This is what the British/U.S. did in China! For the New World Order by CIA type operations. It isn’t any different. It is beyond similar! It is the same.
Because this transhuman model came from a Marxist theorist.
It is a rewritten communist break and mold playbook being used on your children. To transform.
A re-worded bunch of bullshit about fluid genders has harmed children's identities as super American people.
The totalitarian One World Government is destroying a generation of children to use to over throw the United States from the inside.
& it is built on
MARXIST queer programming.
And it is a blueprint to crash your childs identity and put in a new one. Without parental consent! Under secrecy and by force.
This is not beneficial in any way shape or form to kids or especially anyone with gender dysphoria. That is a real thing. And those KIDS are all ruined by this. This HELPS NO KID at ALL
Gay and Lesbian rights groups are screaming to stop harming kids! They are not likely gay, lesbian, or trans!
And the gays and lesbians are fighting to stop GOVERNMENT from telling kids what they are!
That was your red flag that you failed. Why would you let people who kill people for a living around the world tell you anything about your child. Or let them determine what your child's identity is.
pure unadulterated harm is built in.
and harm is part of breaking down a child to make them vulnerable, and obedient to the other kids in the class and to the indoctrination. Kids who are all manipulated into behaving in a certain structure will reinforce those ideas, and behaviors.
That is what school does to little kids. It reinforces through the kids in a group what the instructions are.
If the instruction is to cause children to be BROKEN and FOR them to then suffer through gender dysphoria together. They will FORM a bond around TRAUMA and can be driven AWAY from their mother fuckin parents!
And this is being done at a Young age. Nine, ten, or 11 years old are being exposed to pornographic toxic information. And to make them uncomfortable in a sick way to channel them into an anti-human, state submissive, and permanent “emotional Support Animal” type status.
This is SICK. And your SCHOOL is doing this!
CRUELTY to kids is instructed as policy by the former Department of Education
And it is evil.
And you can thank Trump that he obliterated those Mother Fuckers.
He got that one right!
Reprogramming kids is not education. Learning to be a State controlled “it” is very much anti-human.
And that's what this transhuman programming is. It is teaching kids to be broken down. and by breaking down children they suffer trauma
A whipped animal, a hurt, harmed, and injured animal will be timid and afraid, and fearful and easily SUBMIT to the wishes of the ABUSER.
And this is what these sick fucks are doing to your kids !!!
An injured child, psychologically, is when the reset comes to accept the new programming. To install a new set of values, beliefs, and traits. This is being done to your kids (like ANIMALS).
This is transhumanism being inflicted on your babies
These people who push non-conformity at seven. Are breaking kids into subhuman controllable non-identity bearing lab rats.
And there is a reason.
UNESCO and One World Government have patented all the jabbed COVID Parents and they believe they own your babies.
The U.N. is a serious sick group of monsters.
And your politicians let this happen. And your government, they did this knowingly, and they do not consider your babies or kids people but products. Genderless animals that they can break and reprogram into infertile experiments for future biological or other experiments.
Why do these adulting benchmarks exist? Western cultures are supposedly hyperindividualistic but life stages must be completed at certain ages and in certain ways. How absurd! As a young child, my mom told me stories of adults who never learned to drive as if she were reading a grocery list, it just didn't matter. There are people, such as yours truly, who never leave the parental home, drive, have boy- or girlfriends, marry or have children and what of it? By the way, I do not believe that many people are really concerned about the environment; if they were, we would have local and national carpool programs and vehicular emissions would be substantially cut.
Just adding that I don't think it is just Gen-Z. I'm a single female Xennial, and I know quite a few like me. We grew up in mainline churches. We didn't have purity culture pushed on us like some, however books like "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" were everywhere. If we said that we wanted a husband or date, then someone reminded us that we weren't being faithful. We just needed to follow God and when we were ready, He would bring someone into our lives. While the aformentioned author has apologized for his book, the idea seems to have caught on. Are we waiting for the one and only? As a woman, I'd like the man to take the lead, but all the single men seemed to disappear into a basement when we graduated college to never be seen again.
My 20 year old son goes on and on about how we don't understand his generation. I'll send this to him and maybe he can go on and on to you about it. He's certainly got some good points about the collapse of dating, a main one being that there is a political gulf between young men and young women. And then there's the online dating market, which optimizes for one small group of very fit young men to play the field, and for nobody else. He's recently stumbled upon an age-old method that is way better: do good things, meet good people.
H-wood may have given up on Rom-coms; but K-drama's are overflowing with love and romance and relationship serendipity. The kind American movies used to be famous for.
The writing, acting and production values are better than anything Hollywood produces these day. A few are dubed; but most have subtitles. You can watch them on Amz, Netflix, Viki and other streaming services.
My wife and I have been watching them for years now and they just get better and better.
Glad to hear that Abigail Shrier is working on a new book about Gen-Z's dating and mating struggles! Timely and interesting.
Email sent. Lots of experience with this population. There is a “new idea” coming to youth. “How about we doing something crazy and radical, let’s go outside, don’t bring our phones, and just hang out, talk, and laugh!” What we were forced to do prior to our dopamine machines, they will find necessary to not be robots destined for constant misery.
Abigail, I really encourage you to look into the effects of early puberty for this book.
Walt Bismarck wrote a great piece on this --
https://www.waltbismarck.com/p/girls-are-going-through-puberty-too
I expanded on it --
https://thecassandracomplex.substack.com/p/the-lost-girls-and-boys
I believe Walt is Gen Z (I'm a Millennial) and he might make a good interviewee for the book.